I went dancing after a long time,and it did me some good, the music, the thrill of going someplace and my dancing partner(date). My dance partner told me "I am flying" and i didn't quite understand what she meant, until later she clarified her toes were barely touching the ground, I am glad i didn't suffocate her, or i would have been the first person who actually murdered some one on the dance floor.
We all go through phases right, Initial years till maybe i was 24, I blamed my parents for all things not right in my life, and after that i would have loved to be blame my wife(now ex) for anything which went wrong,but since i was grown up i didn't blame and tried to understand, i thought the generation after me, would be much more considerate and would realize that parenting is one of the toughest jobs in the world, and would "please stop blaming your parents" for all your years they have wasted, they have tried to do their best, managing a career,home and "you" is not easy. How can a parent not love their own child,but parents are humans and they have the so many insecurities,problems, one can barely take care of one self,and to manage a house, and kids it a tough job, i m seriously thinking i should become a AGONY UNCLE, wot say???
There is another type of counseling which is much needed, is for someone who loses his job or when the his biz(danda) goes bust,I had to fire my manager who was with me for last 8-9 years, its so weird when you are associated with some one for so long, to suddenly realize you wont be working together and priorities have changed all of a sudden one day.I am working on my new strategy, that "Produce at the cheapest" so anything which is costing me more than its worth, i have to get rid off, some times the lines are thin and blurred, but i have got "vision" my "high maint" girl friend tells me:-).She is so sweet, the "cutest". I don't deserve her, so i push her to tell me "why us??",She tells me we have a karmic bond, "that means we got to learn lessons" darn scary rite?.So anyone who has got some knowledge on karmic relations,please share,i need to teach some lessons:-)).